PRETTY HURTS: Wrath of Plus Size woman who have been bullied

Hi girls! I know it has been a while. I miss doing this. But today, I will not post OOTD like before. Instead, I want to share my feelings… It might be harsh to others but… This is my first time to be open regarding my “bully” experience.

I wrote this today, because I am tired listening to the people who were hurting me since I was in grade school until today.

 

Wrath of a Plus size woman who have been bullied

I AM BERNA CUEVAS… YES! IAM A BIG FAT WOMAN! If you do not like it, it is not my problem anymore! Deal with it.

I know a lot of plus size girls experience bullied by friends, colleagues, acquaintances, and mostly by their families. It is hard to be okay, if your own house was filled with negativity. I have been bullied so many times. 

When I was young, I cried and brush it off whenever they would call me names, telling me that I’m gonna be alone (nobody will like me to be their girlfriend/wife) or I will be infertile forever. 

 Today I have realized that I was too scared to stand up for myself thinking, I am going to be disrespectful to answer their hurtful and judgmental words towards me. Enough is enough!!!

I am fat when I was young until now! If you do not like me being fat, Shut your big mouth... YES! I ADMIT I AM NOT PHYSICALLY HEALTHY. SO ARE YOU!

 

 Whoever reads this post, I want you to know. You are Amazing! They will turn you down… It will be painful, but when the time comes… you will feel indestructibly happy about yourself --- plus size or not.

 

By the way, thanks to this song. Gives me a lot courage. 

 

 

Love with Curves,

Berna