Hi girls! I know it has been a while. I miss doing this. But
today, I will not post OOTD like before. Instead, I want to share my feelings…
It might be harsh to others but… This is my first time to be open regarding my
“bully” experience.
I wrote this today, because I am tired listening to the
people who were hurting me since I was in grade school until today.
Wrath of a Plus size woman who have been bullied
I AM BERNA CUEVAS… YES! IAM A BIG FAT WOMAN! If you do not
like it, it is not my problem anymore! Deal with it.
I know a lot of plus size girls experience bullied by
friends, colleagues, acquaintances, and mostly by their families. It is hard to
be okay, if your own house was filled with negativity. I have been bullied so
many times.
When I was young, I cried and brush it off whenever they would call
me names, telling me that I’m gonna be alone (nobody will like me to be their
girlfriend/wife) or I will be infertile forever.
Today I have realized that I was too scared
to stand up for myself thinking, I am going to be disrespectful to answer their
hurtful and judgmental words towards me. Enough is enough!!!
I am fat when I was young until now! If you do not like me
being fat, Shut your big mouth... YES! I ADMIT I AM NOT PHYSICALLY HEALTHY. SO ARE YOU!
Whoever reads this
post, I want you to know. You are Amazing! They will turn you down… It will be
painful, but when the time comes… you will feel indestructibly happy about
yourself --- plus size or not.
By the way, thanks to this song. Gives me a lot courage.
Love with Curves,
Berna
